Showing posts with label life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life. Show all posts

Sunday, May 27, 2018

Commentary - 3+ Months Living On Sayulita's Calle Libertad

Over three months have passed and we are still living in the apartment level of our new house.  We still do not have hot water, real water pressure or a working kitchen.  Each day at 8am the workers get here and they mix, grind, stack, carry and trowel their way through the day.  Progress is being made but we are ready for a change.  We like our guys.  They are polite and courteous and they work hard.  I kiddingly refer to them as the "Tios", the "uncles" since if feels like they are part of the family at this point.   Most, if not all, of them have been here a full year so they are very familiar faces and personalities to us.  They still consider Ashley and I "the clients" so not much is said but hey are always quick with a smile and a "hola".

I have listened to and watched our crew the last couple months and after a year of construction they have developed a relationship with the neighbors.  Partly because our contractor rents a bathroom from one resident rather than renting a "porta potty" and partly because some of our guys like to mix it up a bit and be friendly with the local residents and receive ribbing in good spirits when work gets messy.  It has been interesting listening to them with the local kids especially.  Always having fun it seems with the little ones.

Casa Pono is taking shape 
Saturday is occasionally "fight night".  Our neighbor across from us is a breeder of fighting roosters.  There must be 20+ cages up the hillside each with a prize rooster. From the street you wouldn't even know they are there unless you lived with the view at our newly constructed house. Men, no women, arrive with beers in hand and the roosters are brought out for inspection and a bit of sparring to show potential clients their potential for future matches at various locations in the area including down the street a couple blocks.  I have been to the rooster fights just once and that was enough.

We have been under construction for a long time now with deliveries, noise, trucks etc.  Now that we are living here, our neighbors seem a bit perplexed having someone looking back at them for the first time ever.  Our lot had been empty and essentially a place for people to throw trash, old appliances and for dogs to do their business.  Suddenly there are lights, windows, activity and people looking back at them across the street.  We have become the focus of their attention in a way as they sit on their doorstep.  That said our neighbors have been extremely nice and are always pleasant.  Some of our neighbors have lived on the street for 30+ years so I am sure to have a family of outsiders suddenly appear has been an adjustment for them as well.  Much of the street's residents are an extended family so they are always moving between houses and yelling to someone a few doors down.  We had always heard that the street was noisy and it was not an easy place to live.  The street is certainly not quiet but the previous place we lived for 3.5 years was much, much noisier with a large neighborhood behind it.  It was mostly festive noise.  People having fun or celebrating but certainly noisier than our new home.

View from the apartment terrace
Speaking with a couple of the neighbors I think they are satisfied that something nice is being built and have received no complaints.  Though tall it is essentially a family home with kids.  There have been 6 remodels and new builds on our street in the last year so the face of the street is changing.  What was once a street to only consider as a "cut through" street where the "fish monger" lived is now getting a new image.  Our neighbor across the street actually put a "se vende"(for sale) sign up for a few weeks but removed it knowing that once the construction settles down in a few more years and road is improved he can sell his aging parents place for a better price.  Is that a good thing?  The face of Sayulita is changing for better and worse.  Prices are up driving many locals out but locals who have their property they know that they are in a good position if they choose to sell if they choose to someday.  We saw the same in Park City.  Prices up, locals out.  We will see how this situation shapes our street in the years to come but we really hope not much changes from the way it is now...other than road improvements.

Thursday is choir practice and Sunday morning are services next door.  Roosters crowing joined with voices raised in song are a combination that won't hit the Top 40 playlist anytime soon but it is certainly better than someone cranking music at 8am on a Sunday.  Our concrete wall is in contact with their concrete wall so we hear everything next door.  The church has been very patient with our project.  Debris constantly rains down into the church's back yard and they have allowed us to hook into their sewer line until sewage permits are issued once the sewer plant work it completed...when that will happen is anyone's guess.

Stuck in our own driveway for two hours.  I do not care if you were late for church.  NO Parking!!
I get out to exercise in the mornings.  With my paddle and SUP I walk down to the beach in board shorts and flip flops and have become a regular sight with the folks who are up early and beginning their day between our house and the beach.  I say a regular "sight" since I pass many people dressed in multiple layers shivering while I walk shirtless looking to actually get in the ocean.  I get noticed for sure and it is not for my 6 pack abs.  I get looks and brief comments asking me if I am cold or if I am crazy.  Living close, 5 minutes, from the beach has been great!  It takes minimal effort grab gear and go and be back to begin the day.  Trace heads out to the beach each day like he was going to the park for a pick up game of basketball or something.  It is so very easy and the kids come and go to school, friend's houses or activities without having to drive them.

Ashley and I like to sit on the apartment patio and be outside and be part of the street but not necessarily be "part" of the street.  The neighbors have their lives and it has been interesting to be sitting there watching it.  We can see so much of the town drive carts, cars and walk by too.  People look at the house, some stop, some yell up to try to sell something, say hello and others are too interested in their devices to care about anything else.  It is so much busier than anywhere we have live yet we like this location the most and feel like we are more a part of town than we have been in the past.

Concrete dust is bad but mostly it is the dust from the street that is everywhere.  Not surprising this time of year as we all forget when it rained the last time to make the dust bowl around here go away for a handful of months.  It gets everywhere.  Our car is parked on the street and if it does not get moved every two or three days it gets so dusty that it looks abandoned.  The neighbors, and us now, try to rinse the car off every couple days.  I even watered my first street the other other day just like a true local.  We totally now understand what we once considered a big waste of water.

We finally got internet! It is not news that Sayulita has outgrown it's phone/internet network.  There are other options available but we could not connect to any in our location.  So, we had our name on the phone company's waitlist.  I was pouring pesos into our portable "hot spot" router and my phone to keep connected and get anything done online.  I felt totally helpless and so disconnected from the family and the world.  Wouldn't have said that 10 years ago.  Then one day a friend spoke with a guy who he saw running cable line down the street.  He let him know about us and our hopes for getting hooked up with internet.  The next day with a few messages and a whole bunch of pesos later we had our internet!  Contracts and everything.  There is the "waitlist" and then there is they guy on the street who kinda sorta works for the phone company and can hook you up for a price. Connections to the right people and cash will go far.  Phone/internet lines are gold here without a doubt since new construction always needs hook ups that do not exist.

After 3 months without internet...we are hooked up!!
We really do not know when the house will be done.  We added a bit of work that we feel will make a good house a great house plus save us some pesos in the long run to do the work now.  The added work has taken close to six weeks and every bit of material needs to be lifted 4 stories up by hand or electric winch to the roof so the pace is extremely slow and painful to watch.  Once the rooftop is done then they crew will start making their way down through the house detailing and taking care of items not yet completed.  So now we sit and continue to wait for the rest of the house to be made ready for our move upstairs at some future date.  I will try to post some updated photos soon.

That is about it for now from Calle Libertad.  Hopefully, the frequency of updates will increase as remaining items get taken care of.

Saturday, May 12, 2018

A Month In Sayulita-March 2011: Is Sayulita "All That Great"? A Look Back.

We posted this back in 2011 when we returned from our month long trial run here in Sayulita.  Seven years later, yes seven, the post still rings true and sometimes we need to remind ourselves where we are, where we came from and what we have experienced during that time.  Anyway, a fun look back and a bit of wisdom too from back in the day.  Link below.


A Month In Sayulita-March 2011: Is Sayulita "All That Great"?: The quick answer to that question is "No". If you go to Sayulita with a certain image in your head I think you might be a bit di...

Sunday, February 12, 2012

On the Downhill Side

Here we are looking at the mid point of our time here and what a ride it's been since August when some things lined up and we finally said "Screw it, enough talk, we're going". Looking back on it, what have we accomplished in the last five months? I sat down with a Pacifico and shot of Don Julio and started a list.

-decided to move to another country
-told the grandparents we were moving
-packed up and rented our home
-rented a home in Mexico sight unseen
-bought surfboards?
-got the family and dog safely to Mexico
-lived through a hurricane and tropical storm threat


-put the kids in a new school
-set up a new business and attracted clients
-took Spanish lessons
-learned to surf, including Alex, and love it
-made new friends in a new culture
-learned that you don't buy new stuff when it breaks, you fix it or learn to live without it
-have realized that less is so much more
-learned how to make home made dog food
-learned that very rarely will anything happen as you planned or in the timeframe you expect
-learned again that everyone is worth knowing in some way...just some at a distance
-got some of the grandparents and friends to actually visit or make plans to visit
-learned to homeschool and as a result learned more about our kids
-learned to roll with the situation at hand and NOT freak out if something goes wrong

Though we have only reached the half-way point I'm sure this list is lacking a few items. I think I will have to edit this list somewhat and republish the post as I look back at it this summer. So far, so good.

Wednesday, February 1, 2012

Why Not Now?

Reprinted from the Daily Om
Waiting for Someday
Why Not Now?


All the joy and passion you can envision can be yours right now, rather than in a future point in time.

The time we are blessed with is limited and tends to be used up all too quickly. How we utilize that time is consequently one of the most important decisions we make. Yet it is far too easy to put off until tomorrow what we are dreaming of today. The hectic pace of modern existence affords us an easy out; we shelve our aspirations so we can cope more effectively with the challenges of the present, ostensibly to have more time and leisure to realize our purpose in the future. Or we tell ourselves that we will chase our dreams someday once we have accomplished other lesser goals. In truth, it is our fear that keeps us from seeking fulfillment in the here and now—because we view failure as a possibility, our reasons for delaying our inevitable success seem sound and rational. If we ask ourselves what we are really waiting for, however, we discover that there is no truly compelling reason why we should put off the pursuit of the dreams that sustain us.

When regarded as a question, "Why not now?" drains us of our power to realize our ambitions. We are so concerned with the notion that we are somehow undeserving of happiness that we cannot see that there is much we can do in the present to begin courting it. Yet when we look decisively at our existence and state, "Why not now, indeed!" we are empowered to begin changing our lives this very moment. We procrastinate for many reasons, from a perceived lack of time to a legitimate lack of self-belief, but the truth of the matter is that there is no time like the present and no time but the present. Whatever we aim to accomplish, we will achieve it more quickly and with a greater degree of efficiency when we seize the day and make the most of the resources we have at our disposal presently.

All the joy, passion, and contentment you can envision can be yours right now, rather than in some far-flung point in time. You need only remind yourself that there is nothing standing between you and fulfillment. If you decide that today is the day you will take your destiny into your hands, you will soon discover that you hold the keys of fate.

Saturday, January 14, 2012

Differences

At about 1pm today I was in the middle of cleaning the house and washing bedding because Ozzy's mom and step dad are coming. Up next was rugs, clothes, kids school uniforms with a good Oxy Clean in the waiting. And then Ozzy mentions that the water pressure was low because it could mean that we are running out of water. And yes, we ran out of water. We phoned Tomas, with a hard "O", the property manager and he let us know that the water pump to our area of Sayulita was broken. So in other words, we get no water, but we can get a truck up here to bring us water. We had errands to run in Puerto Vallarta so we left hoping to come back to water. When we returned we still had no water and learned that the water truck cannot come until tomorrow morning. Oh well, what do you do, it is Mexico. We have wine, beer and my new mid day, all day, everyday lover, Don Julio:)

We did come back though to an email from our renter in Park City telling us that the dishwasher was broken. We are on top of it and are buying him new one as soon as possible but just had to laugh because here we are with no water to "HAND WASH" our dishes much less use a dishwasher. You could easily spend 1/4 of your waking life here washing dishes.



I was talking to a friend the other day that has lived here for a long time and she asked me how it was going here for us. I expressed a little discouragement at the difficulty but said that we still love it and am glad that we made this decision for our family. She quoted her husband, "If it was easy, everyone would want to be here". He was right on!

Friday, December 23, 2011

Life

The holidays are upon us, actually almost over. Finally! The holidays to a junior flight attendant, yes, 15 years is junior, means non stop working for the last half of both November and December. November worked out well because I was in Mexico for the first half of the month. December is another story. I only got to be with my family for five days. Kinda sucks. Part was self inflicted, I chose to work more so I could take three months off, and the other part was due to the hard commute. If you are thinking of going to Puerto Vallarta nonstop from anywhere except Mexico City on a week day, except friday during some months, don't even waste your time looking for flights on Delta. So, for the better part of a month and a half I have been in and out of the slurpy, dirty air of Salt Lake City. Besides the poor air quality it has actually been great, especially this month. I am working a lot but am also in town a lot. Being pretty much single and childless I have had so much "me" time. It has been wonderful to catch up and spend hours with friends, just hanging out and talking for as long as I wish. Good quality time nurturing friendships, staying up late, sleeping in, watching movies, I actually went to a movie in the middle of the day, reading, practicing and learning my Spanish though not nearly enough. I went to an exercise class that I wouldn't normally do, my favorite zumba classes, I even swam. Good thing I had my new Jolyn bathing suit with me. It felt really good to be back in a bathing suit, too bad I was in Anchorage. I need to store all of this relaxation because when I get back I will be mom all the time for three months. Ozzy has been incredible, as always, doing all that has to be done. I left him with a lot on his plate, so now it is his time. I just wonder how long it will take until the kids quit calling me dad.

I am ready to go back though and live in Mexico instead of just saying that I live there. I miss my kids, husband, dog, the sun, my oZoboard, my kids, the food, clean air, minimal clothing, the people, the language, my kids, my husband. I am not complaining, we chose this life and knew at times that I would be gone a lot. It is what it is and I would not change a thing.

I have a great life! I am blessed to have what I do, with my family, friends, job, countries, freedom, love and support. Like I said before, I wouldn't change a thing.

Ashley